Fear

YOU RESIST CHANGE. You  are  not satisfied with your relationship as well as so many other aspects of your life. But you go on exactly the same. Changing is hard work while getting into the unknown frightens you.

Fear to poverty, to illness, to old age, to labour insecurity, to face your children with whom the relationship is more difficult every day… Fear to talk with your mother-in-law, fear to talk with your partner of everyday issues that are hidden, disguised or ignored. Fear of rejection, fear not to get the job you are dreaming with, fear to face reality. Fear to so many small details….

There are old fears and fears that come up when facing different aspects of everyday life. Fear to trying something new is so great that you choose  not to change. You choose daily dissatisfaction.

YOU COMPLAIN, YOU CRITICIZE, YOU OBJECT. EVERYDAY. BUT YOU DO NOT CHANGE ANYTHING. You do not like what you have but that is what you are used to. Why changing?  What are you going to get if you try something different? You convince yourself that no matter what you do NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE. You pass the time watching TV, have dinner out, go away the week-end, go on holidays, entertainments, run away from reality and try to forget. BUT YOUR DISSATISFACTION IS THERE WITH YOU INSIDE YOUR MIND. IT WILL FOLLOW YOU EVERYWHERE.

Reprogramming yourself for something different, leaving your comfort zone, the known and familiar requires effort. Facing the unknown frightens you. YOU TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE LIKE THAT AND THAT YOU CANNOT CHANGE.

YES, YOU ARE LIKE THAT , BUT YOU CAN CHANGE.

BY RESISTING TO CHANGE YOU LIMIT YOUR POSSIBILITIES INSTEAD OF EXPANDING THEM.

Have you enough courage to come out from where you are to go where you would like to be? Do you dare to open new windows and doors to your life? Are you willing to leave all those negative feelings?

CHANGE IS POSSIBLE IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE. YOU ARE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR SHIP AND YOU DECIDE. The minute you decide to change y start working for it, the wheel of change starts moving.