Unhealthy relationship’s comments

“She/he talks but doesn’t listen to me.”\r\n\r\n“It is his/her fault.”\r\n\r\n“If it weren’t for…”\r\n\r\n“He/she must change.”\r\n\r\n“She is always nagging.”\r\n\r\n“He/she’s never satisfied”.\r\n\r\n“He/she’s seldom happy.”\r\n\r\n“He/she ‘s too bossy.”\r\n\r\n“He/she does whatever he wants.”\r\n\r\n“He/she’s not enough at home.”\r\n\r\n“He /she is not affectionate enough”.\r\n\r\n“My marriage is a complete failure.”\r\n\r\n“He/she  doesn’t help with…..”\r\n\r\n“He/she is always angry.”\r\n\r\n“I do not get what I want.”\r\n\r\n“ I do not get enough sex.”\r\n\r\n“I’m not a mind reader”.\r\n\r\n“He does not even answer to me, when I speak.”\r\n\r\n“He/she talks more with his friends than with me.”\r\n\r\n“He/she ignores my phone calls.”\r\n\r\n“She/he only cares about her/his job.”\r\n\r\n“He /she wants to divorce.”\r\n\r\n“I don’t feel understood.”\r\n\r\n“The atmosphere at work gets worse every day.”\r\n\r\n“I need a break.”\r\n\r\n“ I need some holidays.”\r\n\r\n“I’m fat.”\r\n

Do they sound familiar to you?

\r\nIf you want to change you can.\r\n\r\nYou must be decided to work for what you want. It is a personal work that nobody else can do for you.\r\n\r\nIt is all about attitudes and states of mind.\r\n\r\nIt is a training to manage your own life.\r\n\r\nTrain yourself to be a winner.\r\n\r\nIt is a matter of choice.